Tonya Foust Mead, PhD
Behavioral Science, MBA, M.A. Educational Psychology
Knowledge, Skills and Abilities
Too often teachers complain that a child is not
participating in class, is a slow learner, lacks interest, is inattentive, or
is disengaged. Comments such as these serve as lead-ins to ‘he is disruptive in
class,’ or ‘she is too talkative to friends,’ the list goes on.
particularly alarming. Thoughts of learning disabilities, potential ADD/ADHA
diagnosis, Section 504 or IEP special education hearings follow.
trivialize the teacher’s concerns nor to
negate the expert opinion of medical professionals such as school-based
psychologists ...<< MORE >>
Recent Scandals
In the wake of the Blagojevich scandal, whereby the
President-elect’s Senate seat appeared
to be up for grabs to the highest bidder, other scandals which bring the moral
integrity of our political leaders come to mind. The foibles of Former New York Governor Elliot Spitzer,
former Florida Congressman Mark Foley and retiring Idaho Senator Larry Craig
come to mind, to name a few.
In the corporate area, the story of Bernard Madoff’s $50
billion Ponzi scheme operated through his
investment firm, caps off years of scandalous reports from Enron, Tyco
International, Adelphia, ...<< MORE >>
To paraphrase Glenn and Nelson (1988), there are four
critical factors are involved when raising self reliant children in modern
times.
Awaken From your Slumbers and Rise on Your Wings

Preface
This book is the result of my attempts to understand the mysteries of life. As members of a disfranchised group, we resemble bumble bees. Aerodynamically, according to the laws of physics, we should not be able to fly. Items negating our abilities include: reports of intellectual limitations and genetic inferiority; professional journals and literature valuing homogeneous managers as more productive given a diverse and heterogeneous environment; prejudicial myths of predisposition to violence and reproduction; and the mass media hystericising the plight of the urban poor and the backlash of the white male.
If we allow others-- those on the outside-- to dictate our lives, we will never realize our mission in life-- to fly with strength, beauty, grace and dignity. No matter how much training, education, and business experience we obtain, hatred and prejudice will always obscure and overrule the obvious.
The missing ingredient is perfect love. Selfless love, unyielding love, forgiving love; a love not prone to envy, hate and boastfulness. This love-- perfect love-- magnifies the three dependent variables; training, education and experience, which allows us to fly in the midst of oppression, negativity and false beliefs.
So, the bumble bee bumbles and buzzes happily from flower to flower, enjoying fully the nectar of life, unaware of the commotion around him. All he knows-- innately-- is that God gave him the ability to fly, and so he does...
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some of the ways in which he or she can begin to break free of the internal and
external forces that can give rise to feelings of racial inferiority. I'm
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I have a Quaker background. Your book attuned me to statistics of different
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begins his journey for this book by recalling a time in which he had a physical
element (a blood clot formed in the right hemisphere of his brain). The
protagonist, in this case,
reached a point of no return in his life. Presented with three options by his
vascular surgeon: (1) to undergo an operation as soon as possible, (2) to be
admitted into a hospital for a period of six to eight weeks under constant
monitoring, or (3) to wait for a few days to see what would happen Campbell had
to make a decision- and quickly.
elected to wait to see ...<< MORE >>